Love

How do you really know when its love and not infactuation? The answer for me is still unknown. I can sure tell you this though? It always hurts when you really thought with all your heart that it was love and it turned out not to be for the other person. The emotional pain you endure is by far more greater than any physical pain ever. Why does this happen? Especially when you have children together? People use the word LOVE way to loosely and it affects people oh so greatly. Love is not a game, toy or even to be taken for granit. Love is to be cherished and held up high so everyone can see it. Love is for real, so mean it next time you say it, PLEASE!! THE FIRST PERSON YOU MUST LOVE BEFORE ANYONE ELSE IS YOURSELF.